Tuesday, 3 June 2014

Day 21. Frustrating friendships

Recently I've found myself becoming frustrated with people to whom I continually offer olive branches being gung ho and uber pally one minute and then seemingly indifferent the next. I will never understand this and so I'm at a stage where I think I shall just stop trying to do so.   They know where I am and I would never reject their contact. I know life gets in the way sometimes but I can't understand why people can't be consistent in their attitude. I find it confusing and upsetting. 

Time to put my big girl pants on and move on methinks. 





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  1. There's nowt so queer as folk.

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  2. I'd tell you not to get hurt because these people probably don't realize that they are acting that way, but on the other hand it is always good to make new friends.

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    1. Thank you - I'm guessing its time to move on. x

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  3. I've spent a lot of time trying to fathom what others do Kim. You can't nor can you change their behaviour only how you react to it. Once I'd learnt this I let a few friendships just quietly fade and in their place new friends have come in.
    Arilx

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    1. Agreed -and that is very good advice. Thanks honey.

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